No woman on my mother’s side had ever earned a college degree.
And still, I dreamed big.
I was the girl studying medicine in Senegal at sunrise and biotechnology by night, secretly preparing for a life no one could quite picture—but I could feel it.
Even when the rules around me said, be grateful, be quiet, don’t want too much,
I wanted more.
Not for the applause. For the freedom.
And so I moved—across countries, across careers, across the old beliefs I was raised with.
Not always knowing the how… but trusting the woman I was becoming.
Today, I’m still becoming.
Still chasing dreams that stretch me.
Still sipping French vanilla lattes, building a life that’s mine.
And every step I take reminds me:
you don’t have to have it all to start.
You just have to start.
Certified Life Coach, positive psychology expert, Human Behavioral expert, Biotechnology researcher and BossLady BY DESIGN WITH BIG DREAMS.
I'm Marthache
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They’re made for more.
You’ve checked all the boxes, followed the “safe” path, but somehow still feel stuck in a life that doesn’t feel like yours.
You doubt your worth. You silence your needs.
You’re tired of pretending to be okay when you’re barely holding it together.
I’m here to help you rewrite the rules.
To walk beside you as you build unshakable confidence, set bold boundaries, and step into the relationships, careers, and dreams that actually fit.
I’ll equip you with the tools and the mindset to rise from the overwhelm,
and start creating the life you were always meant to live.
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- Go-to coffee order: French vanilla latte (hot or iced, always with a book in my hands).
- Can binge-watch for hours: Romantic movies and reality shows.
- Always saving: Luxury outfit inspo + hairstyle ideas I may or may not try.
- Soft life ritual: Skincare, deep convos, and solo dates to fancy cafés.
things I enjoy
"If you don't make time to work on what in your life, you'll spend a lot of time dealing with what you don't want in your life."
words to live by
Luxury hotel, ocean view, and quiet mornings with room service
Dream vacay
Spotting talent and turning it into a business idea.
If I had a superpower
I’ve been commanding attention (and asking for what I want) since 2000.
Born to lead
Let’s get a little personal…
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I'm always saving:
Back in 2027, something unforgettable happened. I was honored by the Congo Brazzaville government for my academic achievements. They celebrated me on national television, showering me with gifts. I was just a girl who had worked hard in silence, and suddenly my name was on everyone’s lips. For a moment, it felt like I had made it. But life had something even deeper in store.
Fast forward to 2019. I was visiting my grandmother in Mokina, a quiet village far from the noise of the city. That’s where a 15 year-old girl came up to me. She had recognized me from the TV. Her teachers talked about me in class, calling me a role model. And in the most innocent, pure way, she asked, “What’s your secret?”
That question shook something in me. It wasn’t the praise, the spotlight, or the awards that stayed with me—it was her eyes. The way she looked at me like I carried hope. In that moment, I knew that my story wasn’t just mine anymore. I had a responsibility. I had to go first so that other young girls like her could believe it’s possible for them too.
That’s when the seed of The Boss Lady Universe was planted—not as a business, but as a promise. A promise to stand tall, lead with confidence, and show other women that they too were born for more.
why i am here
My Story
After that moment in Mokina, I held onto the fire it sparked. But for a while,
I wasn’t sure where to pour it.In 2020, I jumped into cryptocurrency, hoping to build something big and create freedom. I lost $2,000. I cried. That loss didn’t just sting financially — it shook something deeper. It made me ask, What am I really meant to do?
Then came skincare. I partnered with a brand, shared tips online, and built a presence. I loved taking care of my skin, and I showed up fully. But even then, something felt missing. It wasn’t fulfilling. Not in the way I craved.
Still, I gave my best. I always do. I’ve never believed in half-doing anything. Every idea, every venture —
I poured my heart into it. But none of it felt like home.
From Losing $2,000 to Finding My Purpose—It Was Never About the Business, It Was About the Calling.
She Looked at Me Like I Was Magic. That’s When I Realized My Life Was Bigger Than Me.
Friends would call me after a long day and say they felt heard. Uber drivers would open up about their lives. People I barely knew would tell me things they hadn’t told anyone. And almost every time, they’d say the same thing:
“You should do this for real.”
I didn’t recognize it at first, but I was already holding space. Already coaching. Already doing the thing.
Then came July 2023. I found a coaching program that lit something up in me.
It didn’t feel like a job. It felt like alignment.
This wasn’t just another business idea.
This was purpose.
This was peace.
Today, I wake up knowing I’m doing what I was created for.
And for the first time, I’m not chasing success.
I’m walking in it.
At the same time, something else kept happening...
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